have you ever had a friend you just want to shake and say wake up! your seeing things the wrong way! this isn't how things are at all! well i do and here's why, this person has been very depressed for the last couple of months. she has loving parents who even if they do the wrong thing sometimes do actually love her and try to make her happy. her family is going through alot of stress and as far as i can tell they're handling it very well. my family certainly couldn't go through it without having tons of problems. on top of this, she likes a guy and that would be me or she did.. well anyway, i have no clue whats going on because we had an agreement to wait for each other..cuz of things that prohibited us from seeing each other. and then recently she said we should see other people because A: it'd give us experience with dating..(i don't quite understand this cuz it doesn't matter how much experience u have if u love each other) b: because we had been dating for a while and it wasn't really a useful thing to do.. (i suspect she wants some other dude and shes either checking to see if I'm faithful or, shes waiting for the other dude.. anyway id appreciate advice on this cuz..its super confusing and id also like to be friends with this girl even if were not dating. btw this is the same girl i mentioned in my earlier post..
so here's some new developments to this story. i called her today to just talk and i realized it wasn't that she was pissed at me per say it was that she was pissed about something and took it out on me. thankfully i had time to think while i was rowing and i came up with this conclusion. when i take my anger out on others, does it hurt others as much as she is hurting me? so i have decided to let things go with her and to move on. that's the way it has been with our past interactions. forgive and forget is the best way to go : )
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